Well, we have a few more details about Dad. Just as grim and shocking as the initial diagnosis. Although, he still has to meet with the oncologist the doctor spoke with him today. It's stage 4 lung cancer and it's in his bones and the adrenal glands near his bladder or kidneys. He has a spot the size of an orange on his left lung and smaller spots on his right. So far, it hasn't gone to his brain.
There's a slight chance that chemo could extend his life, but Dad has (so far) said no to chemo because he's watched friends go through it and suffer so much. They can only do radiation on one area (for pain relief) so that would probably be his lower back area.
The new prognosis is 3-6 months (with no chemo).
So, I'd appreciate all your prayers in Dad's behalf. We're all taking this pretty hard. I mean, I know I'm 48 years old...but I'm just not prepared to lose my Dad. He's 72 and that's just too young. But, I will take your advice and go to see him over the holidays...tell him how much I love him and leave nothing unsaid (as if I were capable of doing that--leaving something unsaid that is).
Pray with me now if you would.
Dear Heavenly Father,
It is with gracious hearts and thankfulness that we come to you today. And, your word says that where two or more gathered in your name...so we pray collectively to you now. Lord God, you knew the path my father's life would take and all that he would endure during his life before he was even created in his mother's womb. You knew the timing of this illness and you know the final outcome. Father God, we lift Dad up to you today. Ease his pain and suffering, and if it be your will grant him the courage to make the right decision for the proper course of treatement...whatever that may be. Be with Mom now and in the coming months Father. Her health is frail at best and her spirit is so tender. Allow me and my siblings the time and financial means to support them through this Lord. I don't know how, but I know you can provide a way. And, if small miracles are in order I would ask that my children and grandchildren have the opportunity to see their grandpa one last time before he goes home to be with you.
And, one last respectful request Father God. For all my friends and family who have fallen prey to the nicotine addiction. Lord, give them strength to quit before it's too late. I know how difficult ANY addicition is, but this particular addiction is and always has been heavy on my heart. My sons, my daughter, my sister, my brother along with countless friends need your strength and conviction to quit. Please give them that strength to quit once and for all. Touch their bodies and minds with a healing touch.
Thank you for all that you are and all that you do. You are the Holy Father, Master Physician and Healer. We count on your grace and mercy each and every day.
It is in the name of your son Jesus we pray, Amen.
Well, we have a few more details about Dad. Just as grim and shocking as the initial diagnosis. Although, he still has to meet with the oncologist the doctor spoke with him today. It's stage 4 lung cancer and it's in his bones and the adrenal glands near his bladder or kidneys. He has a spot the size of an orange on his left lung and smaller spots on his right. So far, it hasn't gone to his brain.